Dan's Stole: On Creating a Buddhist liturgical vestment

After seeing the wedding pictures, several people have asked me if I made the stole that Dan wore to perform Anna and Matty's wedding ceremony so I thought it merited a post.  When Dan was getting ready to perform his very first wedding, he decided that he would like a stole and I offered to make one.

While a liturgical vestment often associated with the Christian tradition, the stole was probably based on the tallit or Jewish prayer shawl.  In the Japanese Buddhist tradition, patchwork plays a very large role.  Monks are supposed to beg or collect scraps of fabric to piece together to make their robes.  It was from this that I got the idea to use crumb piecing to create the stole. Dan chose the color red.


After the stole was pieced, we determined that it needed some sort of symbology on the peak at the back and on the ends.  Dan chose the dharma wheel for the back and lotuses for the front ends. The red lotus is that of Avalokitesvara, the bodhisattva who embodies compassion.

Here's a great shot of Dan with my Dad that shows the dharma wheel.  The photo was taken by my brother, Dan Warner.

This is a close-up of the dharma wheel.

Here's one of the lotuses.

This is the ceremony in progress shot through a string of prayer flags and one of my favorite photos of the wedding.

Update July 20, 2010              
          
I received an email from Lynn, a vestment maker with more information about the history of the stole.  Here's what she has to say:
I am a long time vestment maker and although people of prayer have draped themselves in garments of worship for thousands of years, the stole itself traces its lineage to first century Rome.  The stole or scarf, longer (to knees) was worn as a symbol of 'office' and power. When the Christian church became endorsed by 'the state' under Constantine in the 300sCE, Christian priests (deacons, bishops) began to wear upper class Roman clothing as vestiture, again to denote their rank and role, and also fulfilling the idea of 'draping' the worship leader with a covering during worship and/or celebration. Of course every different path of 'the Holy' brings it's own lore and trappings.... When the Jews wore shawls (imitating Moses, who veiled himself, according to scripture, when he met God on the mountain), setting the precedent that a 'garment' was worn in conjunction w/ worship.  Not sure *really* what the first and second century Christians wore... after all, many of them were still Jews converting non Jews to a new 'sect', most probably.  The Roman's desire for 'order' and ritual is what set the pace for vestments, IMO.  The stole is not the only Roman attire that is still modeled in vestiture in Christian churches to this day, but the stole is the one most universally worn.

"There's got to be a morning after"--Sunday after the wedding

Fans and cold, sparkling fruit juice tell the story: it was hot!  Despite the heat, the wedding was very close to perfect.

Purple ribbon left over from decorating, lilac table cloths, and purple planters filled with purple flowers.

The tent  from Partymakers of Greensboro was beautiful and provided welcome shade.

Another view of the tent.

The prayer flags were very popular.

Another view of some of the prayer flags.

Two strings of McDonough family flags.

This planter is called Walter Hehr (pronounced hare).  It was named after my grandfather.  We made him festive with a white tipped purple petunia plant.

Best wishes to the happy couple.  Quilted Librarian out to continue with the clean-up.

DIY Wedding Fun

When Anna arrived on Thursday night, she brought not only a wedding dress, but a whole suitcase full of wedding craft fun.  Yesterday we worked on place cards for the reception.  She had printed the names on circular stickers using the font she had purchased for the save-the-date cards and invitations. I cut strips from some gorgeous Japanese paper she bought in Boston and then she cut them with a decorative cutter.

Here are the finished place cards.

Since this is a backyard wedding in the South in the summer, she thought fans might be in order.  They arrived yesterday.  We will decorate these with ribbon.